Tuesday, June 7, 2016

I Spoke Too Soon

In a blog post, I wrote about how being a mom of two was easier than I thought but I spoke too soon.  Now that Mason is not sleeping as much and wants to be held during those times, I am really beginning to feel what it is like to be a mom of two. 

I thought I was on top of my game.  I was making sure the house was clean, bottles were washed, and all meals were always made but oh how that has changed!  To be honest, I have been getting overwhelmed and at the end of the day, I wonder how I even made it through the day!  I was just thinking to myself last night, "Today is only Monday!" I am not even sure why I thought that because I am still a momma Saturday and Sunday!  I am extremely blessed to have these two miracles and I feel privileged to have such as title as mother but I am just keeping it real folks! 

Showering is something that happens a lot less often and when it does, I always have company and the shower curtain is never closed.  The only me times I get things done are times when I should be sleeping myself.  Me time starts at night and can last all the way until 2 am when the baby is ready to wake again. But just when you think you are ready to pull your hair out, something else gets thrown at you (could be poop or pee) and you conquer it!  I do not know how us moms do it and do it with no sleep at that!

I know my own thinking and mind frame has a lot to do with all the pressure I feel.  I am on a mission to work on that every second of the day.  When I think of all the tasks of the day I need to do mixed with wants, I automatically get overwhelmed so I am going to try to take on one task at a time and then move on to the next.  And if I do not get to them all, the world will not end.  

When Chloe has to go potty or absolutely needs a snack while I am tending to her brothers needs, I will take a deep breath and remember I am a pro at one handed tasks now.  When Mason wakes up on and off for hours throughout the day and wants me to hold him during that whole time, I will take that as time to bond and remember the dishes in the sink are not going to ruin the day.  When Mason cries while I am cooking, I will remember there is a pizza in the freezer if the food burns. 

All the things I am stressing about do not matter.  What matters are these two little humans who rely on me for everything which I knew when I signed on.  The one thing that I will remember and has been getting me through the day is the fact that I am not the only one mothering children.  Hell, my mother did it all on her own.  Being a mom is not for the weak. At the end of the day, all moms should feel like a bad ass for conquering the day and conquering the kiddos!  Even though that feeling will be mixed in with being tired and stressed and you may have remnants of  the kids dinner in your hair and yesterdays clothes on.  Today I will be a bad ass and kick motherhood's butt! 

I just realized I have not put one pic on the post of my little chitlens so here is one or twenty!










4 comments:

  1. I love this. All of what you mentioned is what I'm afraid of when #2 arrives. But you're right - you will kick motherhood's butt! And so can I! You are an amazing mom, Kasey!

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    1. Thank you soooo much!!!! Heck yes, that's the spirit! Lol! As everyone says, it is all worth it!

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  2. You got this! Showering is so overrated. And some kinds of food can be good for your hair and skin. Avocado is basically a spa treatement ;)

    I think that feeling of having it all under control and then realizing you totally do not just ebbs and flows forever. Or until the kids move out, at least. Obviously I'm only three years into this motherhood journey though, so I could be wrong, and maybe it gets easy at some point, but it seems like as soon as I have things figured out they go and change on me.

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    1. Haha! I completely agree with you! You are so right and I think that is why we get down on ourselves so much. I must say, the change does spice up life and keep it interesting!

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